Thursday, December 13, 2012
Sunday, December 9, 2012
In Their Own Words
by Archibald MacLeish
There is no dusk to be,
There is no dawn that was,
Only there's now, and now,
And the wind in the grass.
Days I remember of
Now in my heart, are now;
Days that I dream will bloom
White peach bough.
Dying shall never be
Now in the windy grass;
Now under shooken leaves
Death never was.
Advice
"Almost every wise saying has an opposite one, no less wise to balance it."---George Santayana
Thursday, November 8, 2012
In Their Own Words
---John F. Kennedy, at Dublin Airport, June 1963
Wednesday, September 26, 2012
A Small Brooklyn Memory
We drew First and Third base and Home Plate with chalk, but the sewer plate halfway up the street was Second Base. But that’s all beside the point. The point is we couldn't let the Signora’s attack upon us go unanswered. So one morning a small Maytag truck from all the way out on
Wednesday, September 12, 2012
Writers in Their Youth (faux)
"The classroom was large and clean and well-lighted. It was a good classroom. There was the smell of new books and pencil shavings and an early September breeze coming in through the half-open window. The teacher's name was Miss Barkley and she had fine legs and a good face. I wondered if she would let me stay to clap the erasers after class. I wondered if she would call on me to ask me if I knew the answer to this question or that. I hoped she would. I hoped she would pull me out of line and tell me what a fine looking boy I was. But the whole morning long she called on the other kids and never once looked in my direction. 'The hell with her', I thought."
-----From the lost childhood journals of Ernest Hemingway
Hemingway, age 6, with his sisters Ursula and Marcelline on their first day of grammar school, 1905.
Saturday, July 28, 2012
In Their Own Words:
“I
don't know who I am or who I was…I know it less than ever…everything is totally contradictory…but maybe I have remained exactly as I was as a small boy of twelve.”
-Alberto
Giacometti
Monday, May 28, 2012
Spider's Awakening
Spider shook his head. "I need a gun," he declared flatly. "If we're going to play guns, then I need a real gun".
"You shoulda brought one then."
"Well I didn’t."
"Stupid."
"
The game of ‘guns’ came to a standstill.
“I’m not the moron" Louis insisted. "If you need a gun so bad, why don’t you run home and get one?"
Both boys looked up. A downpour of rain darkened the skylight over their heads. Some great Saturday morning, Spider thought. Out loud he said: "Why don’t you just give me one of your guns? What do you need two guns for? You don’t need to have two guns."
"Yes I do" Louis insisted. "They’re a set. If I give you one I’ll have one empty holster. I’ll look stupid."
"You are stupid, so what does it matter if you look stupid? No one’s gonna see you except me. And I already know you’re stupid so it don’t matter."
"Yeah? Well, you’re a retard for not bringing a gun in the first place."
The door of Louis’s apartment opened slightly and Louis’s sister, Francesca, slipped out into the hallway. She took a few steps toward the boys and stopped, staring at some point in the distance.
"What do you want?" Louis snapped at her.
"Nothing."
"Then go back inside," he ordered.
"I don’t have to," Francesca told him.
"We’re playing out here."
"Who’s stopping you?"
Francesca turned to Spider for the first time and smiled.
"Hello, Matthew," she said.
Spider felt the rims of his ears start to burn. No one ever called him Matthew. His mother and father called him either Matt or Matty. The nuns at Holy Cross called him Mr. Gladwaller, which was just one more thing about the nuns that he hated. Everyone else called him Spider.
Louis thought the name hilarious.
"Hello Matthh…yooou" he mimicked. "Oh, Matthh-YOOOU…Matthh…YOOOU…"
"What’s so funny?" Francesca wanted to know. "Matthew is his name."
"Oh, get lost, will ya?" Louis told his sister. "We’re playing out here."
"I can play too if I want."
"We’re not playing some dumb girl game. Go back inside."
"Why don’t you just shut up and leave her alone?" Spider heard himself say.
Louis’ head snapped back as if he’d been slapped. Spider himself seemed to recoil at his own words. The boys were silent for a time. Francesca took it as an opening.
"Would you like to come inside for a while, Matthew?" she asked.
"Inside?"
"I can show you my tank, if you’d like."
"Ah, go away" Louis told her. He’d recovered from his shock, but his words didn’t carry much force.
"You can look at my tank" Francesca said. "I got some new guppies this week."
"No one cares about your dumb fish" Louis informed her.
"Come on" Francesca insisted.
Spider felt he had no choice in the matter but to follow her inside the apartment.
"You’re morons, the both of ya’s" Louis called after them.
Like everyone else Spider knew, Louis’ family lived in a ‘railroad’ apartment. The rooms were laid out one after the other, from the kitchen to the front room. Spider followed Francesca across the living room and through a doorway, into what he knew was Louis’ room.
"You better not touch anything in there" Louis shouted behind them. He was standing in the kitchen now. Francesca opened another door and Spider passed into a section of the apartment he had never seen before.
This was Francesca’s room. It was a girl’s room, but not quite like Spider’s sisters’ room. Spider’s two older sisters shared a bedroom, and it was usually messy with stockings and hair rollers and jars of creams with their caps off. Franceca’s room wasn’t like that at all. The bed was neatly made with a fluffy pink spread. There were shelves on the walls, lined with a collection of dolls and teddy bears of different sizes. A pink-and-white dresser, and next to that a writing table. There was a door beyond which was surely a grown-up room, where Louis and Francesca’s parents slept.
Francesca snapped on a lamp that stood on her dresser. "Over here" she told Spider.
In front of the window there was a low table that held a large, rectangular fish tank. The tank was packed with small fish of different colors that swam its length, back and forth. Spider and Francesca sat down on the edge of her bed and watched the fish. They were red and black and silvery-yellow, with large fan-like tails that shimmered in the clear water.
"Aren’t they pretty" Francesca asked.
Spider shrugged. "I guess" he said.
"Guppies are my favorite fish" Francesca told him.
Time began moving very slowly for Spider. He felt he was supposed to say something. He couldn't imagine what it might be. They were both quiet for what seemed a very long time.
Francesca extended her arms out in front of her and examined her fingernails for some reason.
"I’m already nine," she told Spider. "I’ll be ten in eight months."
"Oh." Spider said.
Francesca turned and smiled at him "Do you think I’m pretty?" she asked.
"Huh?"
"Do you think I’m pretty?"
In all his eight years of life, only his mother had ever asked him that question. Spider had responded then by throwing his arms around her neck and assuring his mother that she was beautiful and promising that he would marry her when he grew up. This did not now seem like the appropriate thing to do with Francesca.
But if he could have formulated the thought, he would have said that Francesca was prettier even than pretty Deborah Montello, who sat behind him in third grade and, excepting Francesca, was the prettiest girl he had ever seen. And if he’d thought some more about it he might have said that Francesca was prettier than the electric red fire truck he’d owned when he was four, or the porcelain face of his mother’s Victorian doll, though they were pretty in a different way than girls were pretty, so maybe they didn't count.
For no particular reason, Spider stood up. Francesca stood up too. She leaned in close to Spider and kissed him on the mouth. Spider responded by plunging his hands into his pockets and looking up at the ceiling.
Time, it seemed to Spider, had pretty much stopped for good. He know that now he had to say something, *anything*, or else they might remain stuck here in this room for all eternity. He forced his gaze down from the ceiling and focused it on Francesca's forehead.
"I have the new Superman and Green Lantern" he told her. "But I haven't read them yet."
Francesca looked at Spider very solemnly for a moment, then suddenly burst out laughing. It was a loud laugh, the way kids sometimes laughed at you if you tripped and fell in the schoolyard or dropped your lunch. The kind of laugh that made your face burn, as if you’d been slapped on both cheeks. Francesca laughed in that way, and it filled the small room.
"Ah, why don’t ya shut up, ya moron" Louis said. He was standing in the doorway of Francesca’s room now. "Told ya she was a real moron, " he said to Spider.
"Oh, go outside and play your dumb games" Francesca said. She sat down at her writing desk and picked up a book that was lying there and started to read. "Stupid little boys," she added.
"Shut up, you jerk," Louis told his sister. She ignored him. To Spider he said, "Here, you can take one of my guns. Let’s go outside"
Spider looked at the gun in Louis’ hand.
"Here—take it. You can play with it," Louis insisted.
Spider took the gun, and followed Louis without looking back.
They went out into the hall and played ‘guns’ for the rest of the morning, but the game had lost its flavor. Spider went home early and told his mother he felt hot, feverish. She felt his head and gave him half an aspirin just to be on the safe side. She had him lie down and take a nap. Spider dreamed he was trapped in the bedroom of a burning building holding a tank of brightly colored fish as the floor collapsed under his feet and plunged him down into the flames below.
Sunday, April 8, 2012
In Their Own Words:
The great comet comes again
Remember me, a child,
Awake in the summer night,
Standing in my crib and
Watching that long-haired star
So many years ago.
Go out in the dark and see
Its plume over water
Dribbling on the liquid night,
And think that life and glory
Flickered on the rushing
Bloodstream for me once,
and for
All who have gone before me,
Vessels of the billion-year-long
River that flows now in your veins.
Sunday, February 26, 2012
Grandparents
Friday, January 20, 2012
The Knish Man
With me, it was the far less exalted potato knish.
The sign over the cooler in Wegman’s refrigerated food section read: The original
I bought one, took it home and popped it in the microwave, and hoped for the best.
Do you recall the taste of a Knish? Perhaps you're not really sure what a Knish is? Some foods are known in one part of the country but not in others. My friend in
To begin with...it's pronounced ka-Nish. Stress is on the second syllable.
Knish: According to my dictionary, the Origin is Yiddish, from Russian knish, denoting a kind of bun or dumpling.
I didn't need the dictionary to tell me all that.
When I was a boy there were guys who would come around on the streets of
We loved them, my sister and I. These days high-minded know-it-alls admonish us to avoid potato-y, starchy, high carb foods and feast ourselves on broccoli and lettuce instead, but back then no one gave a damn what they or anyone else ate. Whether we are better or worse off nowadays I leave for others to decide. I only say that on the streets of
But if I follow him down those streets after all these years on the dimming horizon of memory, I find that there is a whole world standing behind that pushcart peddler, a world sad and tragic beyond words. These were real men who dispensed this exotic treats. Men who sometimes had numbers tattooed in blue ink along the sides of their arms, men who had lost their families and loved ones and every single possession that could be called their own, who had escaped from hell and survived to sell potato dumplings to kids in Brooklyn for twelve cents a shot.
In the early decades of the Twentieth Century,
Sam and his brother Phil, who ran the little superette up the block, both had numbers stamped on their arms at
It may seem strange to go from the humble Knish to a subject as vast and fraught with peril as the Holocaust. But growing up in
The trial is famous today for Eichmann's notorious "I was only following orders" defense, which of course began the legend of good Germans always marching along doing just as they are told. But orders or no orders, Adolph Eichmann was found to be as guilty as his better-known namesake, and he finished his days dangling from the business end of a long, sturdy rope. Good riddance.
I don’t know if I ever made any connection at the time, but my father’s family was German: beer, sauerbraten, pigs-knuckle German. Of course, once he married my mother, that kind of food was pretty much banned from the house forever. Today I am eternally grateful today that I grew up on lasagna and sausage-and-peppers and not hasenpfeffer and bratwurst. But my father still drank foaming mugs of beer as he played pinochle with his brothers every Friday night. Did they feel any guilt or embarrassment over what
And there is this: one cold winter day I stopped at the knish cart on my way home from school for my regular treat with extra mustard down the middle. Perhaps the knishes weren’t hot enough because Knish Man leaned over and opened the side door of the cart and began stoking the fire with a metal rod. As he did so huge licks of flame came shooting out, nearly catching the edges of his dirty apron. I must have jumped back and shouted an inane warning to ‘watch out!’ or something of the sort, because down through all the years I still recall the man’s casual shrug as he continued to stoke the fire, indifferent to the flames.
“So?” I recall him saying, not necessarily to me, “If I burn, I burn. What of it?”
Looking back, the man was probably in no real danger, but I remember to this day that I was profoundly shocked and disturbed, not so much by his words as by the absolute flatness and despair (though I probably didn’t know that word back then) in his voice. That anyone could be so uncaring of their own life was too much for my child mind to wrap itself around. That night I told my father what happened.
“Sometimes people can become very unhappy,” he told me, “and then they don’t care much anymore.” I vowed that no matter what happened to me in life, I would never allow myself to slide down into such indifference and sadness. Of course, it helped that I was growing up in the United States of America, and not Eastern Europe in the murderous time of Adolph Hitler.
And now the years have passed and the Knish Man is long gone from the streets of
Postscript: I tried the Wegman’s knish. It wasn’t bad. But of course some things never taste as good as they do when you’re a kid on the streets of